When your better half and your friends don’t get on, it’s you that can suffer.
Ensuring that you, your better half and all your friends in between are happy is impossible.
However making sure that you’re happy is more then possible, in fact it’s actually doable. Firstly think about why there are problems. Is it your friend who’s kicking up a fuss or your lover?
If it’s your friend, then is this the first time that they’ve acted like this when you started seeing someone.
Also if they are they only friend that seems to have a problem with a potential love interest then maybe their problem lies a little closer to home.
If a number of your mates are showing concerns then maybe it’s time to take a hard long look at who you’re sharing a bed with.
However if its your partner who’s making waves with you’re friends then you have to really talk to them.
If they really want to be with you then they should make an effort to make life as easy as possible.
We can’t all get on but we don’t have to go around declaring war with everyone who wrongs us. Ultimately its easy to get on with someone without liking them and if your lover really wants to feature in your life then they would make a good effort to remain friendly.
However it is always important to remember that any unhealthy relationship whether it is with a friend or lover should never be tolerated.
Remember if you wouldn’t accept that kind of behaviour from a lover why should you accept it from a friend.